Sister In The Family
If you are a brother or a sister
and you’re reading this, then you know
about distance, you know
about lattice fences and locked doors
and fists thrown over the macaroni-
and-ham-slab dinner table.
You’re old enough to know
about soap-in-the-mouth for a curse
against your father, the rumbling
of work boots down the hard-wood hallway.
If you’re from a small town,
then you know about the sound
of work boots, and coffee pots, and the diesel engine
warming up outside your bedroom window.
You know the sound of your sister
leaving for Long Beach, leaving
for college without saying goodbye
(not because she doesn’t love you);
Sarah of the softball scholarship, Sarah
of the Long Beach officer assaulted,
of the finger sliced on the throwing hand,
Sarah of the school expulsion, of the return
home to work with a Bud-Lite
and her uncle’s lumber yard
to pay back her mother
for lawyer’s fees, to marry a man
with one beard, one horse trailer,
and two DUI’s, to move
to Susanville without you,
without saying goodbye
not because she doesn’t love you,
and she won’t come home for Christmas
enchiladas, and not because she hates
your mother’s monkey bread
or tuna casserole or key lime pie,
but because she hates how you happen upon
a dead dragonfly in your driveway.
You know hate too. If you have a family, then you know
about distance between a sister
with a cigarette and a mother
with a bible, and you know the part of you
that hates them both for that distance,
that hates yourself for moving
to a parking lot named Kalamazoo for a desk and a library
and each day saying nothing
as you walk in and out of buildings
about your sister and your mother
to your sister and your mother.
But you’ve never stepped into
that distance not because you lack love,
not because of your new job
or the gym membership or
because of the television,
but because you know
space inside the family
never gets smaller. And who
are you to change that?